I help women to FEEL better – so they can BE, DO and HAVE better!

I can help you if you’re…


  • Worried, stuck, anxious, overwhelmed or upset about something – whether it’s to do with yourself, your work, business, family or friends. Let’s get to the bottom of it!
  • Tired of constantly trying to please everyone else – and hiding what you really feel and need
  • Feeling unhappy with yourself, the way you look, your eating habits, how you behave, or feeling that somehow you aren’t ‘good enough’
  • Struggling with any of your relationships and your part in them. Maybe you’re finding it hard to find or keep a relationship, leaving you feeling lonely and sad
  • Recognising that you’re repeating old patterns and getting the same bad results – particularly if you’ve experienced childhood abuse or neglect – and you’re fed up with attracting the wrong people and situations into your life
  • Concerned about what conditioning and behaviours you’ve picked up from your parents, that you might now be passing on to your own children 
  • Fed up  with still being ‘tripped up’ by your old issues with your mother or father – and you want to get to the bottom of it all, and heal and recover from your TOXIC PARENT(S) 
  • Realising that you might need to ‘sort yourself out’ first – in the ways you think, feel and behave – before your life at home and at work can become more balanced, calmer and happier

These are all signs of a distressed ‘Inner Child’ –  that part of your subconscious mind that has been conditioned by your early experiences, thoughts and feelings about yourself.

This part of your psyche is struggling to cope and needs some help to feel stronger, more courageous, authentic and empowered – whether at home, at work or in any of your relationships. 

As your therapeutic self-development *mentor I work with the deeper causes of your problems, and not just the effects, consequences or symptoms.

This then brings you deep and long-lasting change.

 (A *mentor is defined as:- an experienced, wise and trusted advisor, counsellor or teacher giving help and advice over a period of time to someone less experienced)

Maxine Harley Mind Healer & Mentor

Maxine Harley
MSc Psychotherapy

“Amazing lady! I can’t put into words how much she’s helped me, go to her and you’ll leave stronger, happier and far more capable. She can literally turn your mental health around!!” (Kirsty P )


If you want to get down to the root cause of your problems, regain control of your personal and professional life, change your thinking and behaviour, and get things into balance… then let’s make this happen for you!

If you have any questions please e-mail me at maxine@maxineharley.com


Imagine how much better you’ll feel, and how different your life will be when you make the changes you want to

Why wait any longer?


 Click on the links below to find out more about each of these options…


1. Speak with me by Skype or telephone

2. Work with me in person – 2 hour session(s)

3. Mentoring and self-development for female business owners – called MINDING YOUR BUSINESS – either in a small group, in person with me, or by Skype/’phone sessions

4. Executive level transformational mentoring – called MINDING THE GAP.

5. Exclusive personal mentoring for V.I.P.s called MIND MASTERY 

6. Attend one of my three self-development workshops (these can also be taken one-to-one with me, for 12 hours in total) 

7. My two therapeutic coaching programmes – each consists of 8 modules

8. Therapeutic retreats

9. Five Self-help online courses (click this link) Suitable for men too!

10. Ten Self-help online workshops  (click this link) Suitable for men too!

11. FREE RESOURCES … please click here 


What's On Your Mind - Skype Calls1. Speak with me by Skype or ‘phone for either half an hour or an hour. Ideal if you want a one-off session to talk through a particular problem that you’re struggling with.

These calls can also be used for your ongoing self and/or professional development and mentoring.

(Booking system is available when you click on the image)

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Sort Your Head Out In Person Consultations2. Your two-hour Personal Mentoring or Therapeutic Coaching Consultation - This option is ideal as a ‘one-off’ if you’re feeling stuck, emotionally overwhelmed or confused with what’s happening in your life. We will have time to explore what’s going on, and to find the possible solutions for you. These in-person sessions can also be extended to cover your…

Ongoing therapeutically-based personal and professional development mentoring – structured to meet your individual needs 

* Personal therapeutic coaching covering the content of my two childhood and toxic parent recovery programmes – each has 16 hours of in-person work (see below), and…

* My S.E.L.E.C.T. Your Life  self-development programme of three modules12 hours in total. (see below)

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seld development, business and transformational mentoringUnique personal and professional development and mentoring for women. EITHER:-

3. MINDING YOUR BUSINESS – in a small group of women, meeting in CHICHESTER  Find Out More & IN LONDON Find out more  & IN BRIGHTON Find out more here

3.MINDING YOUR BUSINESS - in person (2 hour session), or nationally/ internationally by Skype/’phone sessions Find Out More…

 4. MINDING THE GAP – Executive level transformational mentoring and coaching – for men and women in public and private companies, and larger corporations. Find out more here…

5. MIND MASTERY – V.I.P level therapeutic mentoring. Find out more here…


S.E.L.E.C.T. Your Life6. S.E.L.E.C.T. YOUR LIFEThree therapeutic personal development workshops. Each one will help you in different ways to gain clarity, self awareness, understanding, control and peace of mind.

The three workshops combined can also be taken as a one-to-one programme over six weeks – 2 hours per meeting. (12 hours in total)

These three modules of my S.E.L.E.C.T. Your Life process, and are called: ‘Sort Your Life Out‘, ‘Mind Makeover‘ and ‘Behind The Mask‘. Find Out More… 


 Recover From Your Mother Online Coaching Programme7. ‘RECOVER FROM YOUR MOTHER a 3 month coaching programme

Do you need to regain and sustain your courage and composure when dealing with your toxic mother? Whether she’s still in your life or not you’ll have internalised your relationship with her – and that will be getting in the way of your other relationships and peace of mind.

A step by step 8 module programme that takes your from frazzled to focused, from chaotic to calm – with my expert help along the way. 

Find out more here…



Cast Off Your Father's Shadow -7. ‘CAST OFF YOUR FATHER’S SHADOW’ - a 3 month coaching programme

Does your father still overshadow your life – even if he’s not around? A toxic father leaves a heavy shadow that affects your happiness and all of your relationships.

If you want to be free of your ‘father issues’ then this 8 module step-by-step programme will take you there, with my expert help along the way.

Find out more here…




Contact me NOW if you’re interested in either of these uniquely life-transforming coaching programmes.

My unique 3 month programmes will each help you to radically change your relationship with your toxic mother or father. Gain courage, confidence, clarity, control and inner calm from these online transformational coaching programmes – with Skype/’phone calls with me along the way. 

If you want to work through either of these two life-changing coaching programmes in person with me, we can arrange to meet for 2 or 4 hour sessions to work through the eight modules together.

Please arrange a FREE call with me or e-mail me to discuss this SPECIAL option.


Therapeutic Retreats8. Therapeutic Sanctuary/Retreats – You can find out more about the unique retreats I have on offer. Currently:

Recover From Your Mother – TBA

Cast Off Your Father’s Shadow – TBA 

S.E.L.E.C.T. Your Life – TBA 

Inner Child Connection & Celebration - TBA




These are ideal if you want to go deeper by yourself – with my guidance and audio recordings along the way. EACH ONE COSTS ONLY £37!

I’ll help you to understand who you are, and why you think, feel and behave as you do. You’ll be shown how to make the changes you want in all areas of your life, including your relationships, as a parent and even at work/in business. Your ‘inner child’ shows up in all of these areas and can really mess things up for you unless you learn why – and how to change it! (These may not be suitable for you if you’re currently in great distress, and need the emotional containment of working with me in person)

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online self-help courses


Helping you to help yourself to be free from the restrictions of your own mind. Help with anxiety, depression, anger, stress, self-esteem and confidence, weight management, mindful CBT, happiness strategies, understanding yourself and relationships

Seven of these ten workshops also have four audio recordings included.

Each workshop costs only £27 – less than the price of one counselling session!

Save yourself months of needless and expensive therapy!


Self help online workshops of psycho-emotional education from The Ripple Effect Process by Maxine Harley


Contact me here for a 15 minute clarity call to discuss the best options for you.


Free 15 minute clarity call


 With 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist (Masters Degree) working with a very wide range of people and problems I’ve condensed what I’ve learnt over the years into my own new and very effective methods. 

I can help you to sort out your life – or those parts that haven’t been working well for you. You can find out just how much ‘sorting out’ you personally have to do by downloading my free questionnaire from www.maxineharley.com

I am particularly interested in the effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences and childhood trauma upon our adult lives, and how these can be the underlying cause of many of our difficulties.

We all have an inner child who has been impacted by our earlier experiences. This part of our psyche can then get in our way – until we learn how to make peace with the past and become better enabled and empowered to have a happier calmer future.

If this strikes a chord with you then I’ve created some free resources for you – please see here to get your free e-books and video.

 * S.E.L.E.C.T. Your Life is my process of helping you get to where you want to be and to have the life you want and deserve – the life of your own making and not just the one that’s been handed down to you.

You too can learn how to *S.E.L.E.C.T.Your Life (c) – which will not only bring you peace of mind, it will also enable and empower you to be a better parent, partner, and professional… and an all round happier and calmer person.

Self Awareness - Education – Learning New Skills - Emotional Intelligence & Balance - Control & Clarity – Transformation

All of these options , allow you to reach this place of transformation.


Some of the publications I have been featured in







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I currently live in Chichester, West Sussex, England. I am willing to travel further afield to meet you in person if you are willing to pay for my travelling time and expenses. 

 MENTORING for Personal and Professional Development

Maxine Harley (MSc Psychotherapy)

 ‘Your Mind Healer & Mentor’ (c)